Boundary Benders – UGH

Ok you have boundaries … now what? Some people don’t respect those lines you draw in the sand at all and fascinatingly look at you as a quintessential buzz kill for holding yours.

It’s not your problem.

I’ll share that again.

It’s not your problem.

Hold firm.

Better yet, if they keep trying to charm or charge past your boundaries…you are done or at least I’m done on your behalf. I’ll bound over to you and share my boundaries with you if it helps.

Be done with this person. If you’ve made your boundaries clear and they just don’t honor that – you can ask about it…but actions speak louder than words. After a couple instances, I’m generally confident in the knowledge of who a person shows me they are.

Cut’em loose…

Feels better, doesn’t it?