Series: #9 Do It Again?

Book Author Question Series Will you do it again? It depends on my reasons. I love to write. It’s part of how I breathe. Is it always perfect or ideal? Of course not. That’s not the point of my life on this planet from what I gather through ample life experience. I will do what keeps me feeling vibrant and alive, speaking to my authentic self, able to reach my goals in a way I can feel good about… If what I want to do meets that criteria – I’ll do it. If it means writing a book. Great! If not, I’ll embark on some other creative journey. At the moment I have a few different ideas in mind for future books and I’ve framed a couple of them out pretty well. At the moment, that is enough. One particular quote comes to mind as I type this: Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because...

Series: #2 Are Books Passé?

Book Author Question Series Why bother writing a book in this time? Each new medium is scrutinized as being behind the times when something fresh comes along. What ends up happening is that each find a way to claim their own space. Not seeing that possibility seems to demonstrate our inability to imagine more than what’s actually possible than anything watching these discussions and the morphing that happens. Certain books have more appeal in classic book form than others. I’ve heard books that sell well called airport books. Reference books are less useful as that information populates so many internet websites. However, prescriptive books have applicable use when paired with who you are and your personal perspective. It’s what I’ve understood, seen, and respond to, so that is my lighthouse – my beacon. Why write a book at this time? Why not? It’s...

Sound Ideas Interview Friday 2/8/19

Look for an interview on the NPR station WGLT – 89.1 FM tomorrow (2/8/19) during Sound Ideas. Eric Stock talks with me about my book, 9 Word Rethink To Get On With Life. Thanks to Eric for reading it and asking such thoughtful questions. I don’t have exact air times, but I’ll share a link when I have one. Two quick thoughts for the day: A couple of friends and I talked over coffee (for me it’s always ice tea – don’t like coffee – wish I did – but I digress…) this week each talked about overcoming fear – not sure how to do it – actually worrying – maybe boiling down to fear of failure. My first thought is this: When you worry, you bet against yourself. If you’ve reached a point in your life you feel you don’t have the guts to try something new, in part, because of all you’ve built behind you...

Enjoy The Process While Striving

I’m working on this right now as I make significant shifts for my long term future. I’m a single mom career professional with two children ages 9 and 14. I have adventures ahead, but I want to make sure my kids remain the priority they are. Here’s what I’m doing: 1- Travel every 4–8 weeks to a place that takes me closer to my goal. A place I want to live, an experience I want to make a central part of my future. 2- Conferences and workshops that speak to my future self. This is such a simple way to find out if you’re serious about a dream. Surround yourself with people passionate on a topic you’re interested in and see where you stand when the event is over. You can learn a lot about yourself this way. I went to a writer’s conference and a month later my draft manuscript was ready. All I needed was clarity it offered, a couple questions answered, and then I had...

Inspiration or Discipline – Key to Success?

Creativity with discipline is a force to be reckoned with. -Henneberryism I grew up with this mantra – said to me more than a few times by my parents. It’s a concept I discuss in my book 9 Word Rethink To Get On With Life. I dwell on it in a chapter called Normal in a section called The Narrative of Normal – right before Living Next To Normal. This quote became a standardizing place to land in my mind as I considered the implications of the idea. Inspiration needs tethering to keep it grounded in reality and discipline needs some passion and energy behind it or burn out is almost inevitable in time. It takes both to make amazing things happen. You can be inspired all day long, but without actions steps – you’ll float around in the clouds full of aimless inspired bliss – warm and fuzzy as that is and all. Pure discipline is robotic. It can get you started,...

To Stay or Go – Constructive or Destructive?

I offered an answer to this question sent to me on Quora today and I’m sharing it here, because it speaks to something many people put up with…  For what purpose? – is always my question. It’s a common idea and the answers ranged from – get it together and exercise already to why do you not like your self more than to put up with such poor treatment. Another answer that stood out was that this is only the beginning of the mistreatment ahead of this person if this behavior is accepted. I’ve heard people proud of the mean-spirited words they toss at people in the name of ‘honesty’ and telling it like it is – when it’s really just insensitive and lacking empathy. I share my thought on the subject below. My boyfriend called me fat and said my stomach was big, and I can’t forget that he said this (as it’s my biggest insecurity) and...